Am i the only one who thinks this is unfair ?

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Thanks in advance .

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Sorry you're in this situation and I hope all of you can work things out in a calm and respectful way. Let us know if thinks work out OK or not.

Good luck xx

Try to have your dad talk to her and if it comes down to it he can always take her to court and get rights to you. sounds like shes missing you so much shes trying to run your life while shes not around you she just doesn't want you to make any bad choices and i understand that but to take you away from your father the way she did that is really not cool and you should talk to your dad he has rights to you didn't have to go with your aunt you could have stayed with your dad really talk to your dad and maybe all of you can come to some understanding or do the dirty thing and make it legal

Good Luck!

Good luck :)Yes she is over reacting. Does she have sole custody of you or somehting? coz if not by sending your aunt and uncle to take you from your fathers house she may be interfering in his custody time.I opened this question thinking 'this is going to be a typical teenager who did something wrong and now won't accept the punishment,' but now I feel very sorry for you as your mother is acting wholly unfairly. First of all, like you said, he is your cousin, so she should be able to trust him around you. Second of all, when you woke up at 1 your mum had already called and spoken to your dad, so knew you were in the house and safe (and hadn't left the house at all at that point) so I don't know what she had to feel angry about just then. You're a teenager on holiday - what's the big deal if you go to bed late and sleep most of the day away? At least you were in and not going out drinking. Thirdly, you had gone to the beach with the permission of your father, were only there for 4 hours, were never alone, and were back by 9pm. Perhaps, I might be able to understand she thought that was a little late, but then she only needed to ask your dad to ensure you were given an earlier curfew. As for not letting her know, it is ridiculous to expect a child on holiday with one parent to inform the other parent of absolutely everything she does. And as for demanding that you leave your dad's house right then and there, that is plain stupid and incredibly cruel towards both you and your father. It is not fair to cut short his time with you when she moved you away from the country and so he doesn't see you that often as it is. I hate to be mean about your mum, who I am sure does have many good qualities and does think she has your best interests at heart, but I don't think anything you say is going to make much difference as she is obviously very needy and stubborn. The best thing to do would be to have your dad talk to your aunt and uncle and have him persuade them to let you come back to his. As you are not their child they really have no right to keep you from him. Then your dad should calmly tell your mother that you are remaining with him for the rest of the holiday, she can phone at 6pm every day to talk to you (or whenever is convenient for him and you), and she will see you at the prearranged date of the end of the holiday. Your dad needs to maintain the upper hand of being calm and sensible, but he really should hold his ground as he deserves to be able to spend time with you. I mean, for goodness' sake, when I was 8 I went away with the Brownies for a week and never spoke to my mother once! At 15 she needs to cut the apron strings a little, as a friend of mine had a mother who was also very controlling, and the girl eventually began having panic attacks all the time and now at the age of 27 rarely leaves her mother's side. Hopefully that wouldn't happen to you, but if she's not careful she'll push you away and you'll end up choosing to live with your dad and not her at all.