Is it normal for a husband to only communicate by text when away for two months?

Question:

We have a second home 800 miles away and is tucked away in the mountains The house had a leak in the basement , weeds were way high and we had a mice problem. My husband could not leave to help me for he said he could not get away from his business for even a few days. Just a few days after I arrived and I had been working like a dog with the yard and cleaning the basement,my husband calls me to let me know that he was bringing some of his friends at the end of sept to play in the member guest golf tournament here. I was so angry and i yelled at him because i needed him here to help me that this was no get away vacation that i was having and he had been planning this little getaway with his friends. He told me he needed peace and could not stand my yelling and only wanted to communicate thru text. I have been here two weeks and at night I receive a text saying "Are you safe"? my response "yes"

Answers:

It takes two. Be the sane one.

don't text back, just call him. yeah is weird that's your husband! you should have waited until your husband had time and went with you to clean up, if you decided to clean up on your own, now don't complain.

My question what are you still doing up there? Come home and file your divorce papers. Your husband is an ***.

Find a good lawyer

You are a pain in the butt to him.yes he is saving money he knows already you are both in loveStrange.