How do I get my husband back if he's "left" on Separation, due to fights and divorce papers being filed?

Question:

So we get close to home, and he butters me up and says he's sorry and I forgive him...partially b/c my parents have just flown into town that day and I'm heading back from b'day vacation trip to have to go see my

Answers:

i honestly think u 2 need counseling if u really want to make it work! need to get everything all out in the open and just deal with it.

that's messed up right there. its good ur in counseling. but its not just u that is causing the problems. and don't sit there and take all the blame, its his fault too, i mean he is the reason that u r nit-picking. u cant let him walk all over u and tell u its all ur fault.

It would be a shame for you to split.

Let him go... it sounds like you two need to go your separate ways!

Judging from your 1st 2 paragraphs (too long, I have a short attention span!), this is not a health place for your children or you. Move on and and find someone who is healthy!