Do you agree? Rep. Honda (Calif) wants illegals to get health care too.?

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Could this then happen? Everyone needing health procedures (Canada, Britton, Germany, etc) will come for a "vacation", buy health insurance and on the seventh day... they will rest from their labors and have the surgery, procedure etc.. they came to have done before vacation time is over?

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If this provision passed, I can foresee that Dems loses the election in 2010.

Why would the rest of the world who already have civilised health care travel to the US?

Is it ok to leave a stray cat in my car for a while?

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Do you think this is an ok setup for that long? I'm going to be going out every 2 hours to check on him but I want to make sure that I don't hurt him somehow.

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Note: What a cute face. Darling markings across the nose. He is one lucky cat! ( make sure you get him neutered quickly to prevent the spraying In case they want to do it tomorrow, no food or water after midnight. Let them know when he last ate or drank.)

Check the weather see how hot it is going to get tonight... If it is over 55 degrees I wouldn't suggest it.

How does he seem to be handling it so far?

Thanks for helping this cat.

ok well i think it is ok if you stay with checking on him every 2 hours and make shur he dont get to cold tho

Living next door to your husbands ex-wife?

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Ok, so my husband has two children from his previous marriage, a 12yr old daughter and a 10yr old boy. We have a 5yr and a 1yr old. My step-children(though I don't like the word and will only be using it for descriptive purposes) live thirty minutes away in the next town. We spend alot of trying to divide our lives between two towns, four children and an hour drive. We have talked continuously over the last few years about relocating to be closer to our children on a daily basis. However, it seems like nothing ever fits our price range or our demands. Let me also elaborate on my relationship with the mother of my step-children. We are friends, parents, and family. We have never played the part of evil ex-wife hates new wife or vise versa, very well. We spend holidays, birthdays, and even some vacations together. I know this seems odd, but our children adore it. They thrive with a huge family that loves them and wants the best for them. I should also mention that even though my own mother and grandmother live less than two minutes from my house, they haven't seen my children in months. I personally,as well as my husband come from a broken homes, dysfunctional families, and that can be very tiring on it's own. And as weird as it may seem, my husband's ex-inlaws seem to be the family neither of us had. So, where is my dilemma? Well, the house next door to our children has been put up for sale. After receiving a excited phone call from "the ex", we checked into it, and surprisingly it's everything we have wanted including affordable. I think of all four of our children being able to play, go to school, do homework, and eat dinner all on a pretty daily basis. I think about how nice it will be not only for me and our children, but for my husband, to be able to see his children EVERYDAY! So, I thought it was decided, that was until I started talking to my family and friends. All of them seem to think I am making a horrible mistake by making this move. They are telling me that I will never have my own home and my own family, that everything will be an extension of my husband's ex wife. Now I'm so nervous and I'm worried that I am making a mistake and maybe I'm being naive about everything....I just don't know. I guess I'm looking for someone else's opinion on the situation.

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Look let me make this simple, your family has no right to tell you that you made a mistake or to make you feel guilty for what you have decided was best. That's between you & your husband. Family's & Friends are so bad to make comments just because they dont agree. You thought this was best for your kids & I agree with you. Don't stress about it, just enjoy your life!!

You already said you come from a broken home and since when have your friends been so right about anything. Seriously only you and your husband know the type pf uncommonly wonderful relationship you have with the ex's family and both sets of kids. I think this is a fabulous idea. The kids can grow up together you can see them more. It will be easier to coordinate if either couple wants to go out. What you family will be a extension of his ex wife? No no no you will be a extension and vise versa, it's called "extended family" and that's a great thing. You have nothing to worry about, just look forward to a bright future. Some people think they know everything but they have never walked a mile in your shoes!

ya, sounds like a mistake. but your situation is a TOUGH ONE. dont know what id do. gotta keep distance between your life and the ex wife life. i can see her cooking dinner for everyone at her house andy you come home to everyone over there. you need at least 10-30 minutes distance.

Is my husband cheating or what??

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What gives?

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Has he been this way for a long time? Can you recall when it started? There might be something that you did that may have triggered him to feel the way he is now. You should do your best effort to talk. You cannot do much without a good communication. You have to know why. But if he doesn't cooperate, then you should start moving on. You deserve to be happy. But you always have a choice - to accept him and be a martyr all your life or start finding your own happiness. Don't wait for another to change in order for you to get happy. Finding your own happiness doesn't mean that you have to cheat or find another partner, though. Probably, you have loved him so much that you may have neglected yourself. Well, start by loving yourself more. Make yourself beautiful, occupy you mind with work and child, go out with friends, shop if you have a budget, exercise and eat healthy. These would put all your stresses away and eventually, make you happy.

Now that you have listed what's going on, you take it in all for yourself and ask yourself is he cheating on you? Since you asked my opinion, he has somethin else going on in his life and you need to just GO ASK HIM!!! PRESS THE ISSUE IF YOU HAVE TO because it seems like you need the truth.

i wouldnt say cheating for sure.. it could be depression, money, family etc.ask him what does he want tell him that you are there for him and give him space it is not easy but if and when he comes around suggest counsling

So heys just stressed out or hes not getting intrested try talking to him try about 6 times if he discontects you just get a deforce if you dont feel that your in love with him any more

well either he is already or he is interested in someone else....Kick him out of the house (or leave and stay somewhere else) and see what happens. But yeah, it sounds like he's cheating.but the problem remains is it over?I'd say it doesn't really matter if hes cheating ... it would just be a symptom of a crappy marriage ... and it sounds like a very crappy marriage .. if its me im out.it looks like he defiantly is but don't just straight up say to that he is just talk to him

Second part of my baby name game!!?

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Hope you enjoyed! Star if you liked!

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19. No I don't want to lol

Tell her who her real father is

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18. i ignore him19. Haha, I don't have a lot of time, so I will skip this part, but really fun game!!! Thanks! =)18. We sit down and talk to our daughter and tell her the truth, we explain everything and tell her that her dad loves her even if he’s not her “real†dad. We tell her it’s up to her if she wants to meet her bio-dad18. tell her, shes old enough.18.we dont do the documetery we did the reality show.

Mens deoderant in Japan: My stench is profound?

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And yes, I know at least one person will make some snide comment, like "Take a shower." OK, I take about 3 a day in the summer, and two every other time of year, because I sweat like Elvis in 1976. I know, I'm a disgusting bastard. Please help.

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You can buy American deodorant at Costco or at the American Pharmacy (in Hiroo or Tachikawa ). I think your problem might be that plain men's deodorant doesn't include an antiperspirant, so the smell is covered, but not the sweating part.

EDIT: My guess is it's something you're eating.You don't eat a lot of curry do you ?

Or maybe you could have friend/family member buy some here and ship it to you over there.

How to challenge a parking ticket. can I? do I have a case?

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Thanks in advance =)

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And it's cul-de-sac, by the way. It's French for 'bottom of the bag'. :-)

Have a good weekend.

Answered your other question too. :]