Friday, September 18, 2009

I have just learned that god accepts cousin relationships, im 18 and shes 20 and im in love with her?

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i really hope this burning desire for her never goes out, and im hanging out with her next week with my friends, and i dont know how to bring this up, im scared of what she will say,or that she will be uncomfortable around me from now on, i already established the fact that i dont give a dam what anyone else says.. she has made little moves on me, and me to her, we get along GREAT, when we're together she sits on my lap and we talk, if i make a move on her that gets sexual, she says im her cousin, dont do that, and i stop, ive looked over the bible, and looked at the internet, and people's comments and they are saying society views it as gross and disgusting, also because your kids might turn out bad(i know this) i would be willing to take a chance...god allows it so why not and im a man of god, and did u know mary and joseph were cousins..interesting stuff there..i dont feel like talking to anyone in real life about this, except my good friends, but i need expert advice, and am only comfortable talking to people over the internet...the family was on vacation in jamaica for a while, and we were living in the same house for a week, i would go out with my parents, and she would stay at the house or go out and talk to friends, she met someone and in like the same day she claims that thats her bf, but he lives a little away from the house and during her 2 week vacation only came to see her like i would say 5 times, and they went to an ice skating rink at one point, he has kept asking her to have sex with her at times etc, and the way she has described him to me, i think he just wants the sex and seems like he would dump her for another chick in a heartbeat and abuse her.. i mean the guy has taken her out once and they've only known each other for 2 weeks over the course of one vacation and they met up and talked a small amount of times, he doesnt seem sensible to her opinions at all..keeps bringing up sex and she keeps saying she wants to wait till marriage, but now shes back home, and they can barely talk to each other, does she really know him?? does she trust him?? he lives by himself, there are ladies exposing themselves all around, and his hormones will be raging, and his so called gf who he knew for a small amount of time wont be back for probably another year or more.. and plus he lives by himself, and he knew she was on vacation, so why not take at least a day off and be with your so called gf, they were only were together for about an hour the most each time they hung out..seems like she's getting played, anytime we're together we share drinks, hold hands, give each other full eye contact, play fight, laugh at each others jokes, i give her sexy looks, talk dirty, and one time she put something in her panties and said for me to get it, and i inched closer, but before i got to the treasure, she said we're cousins and that she'll scream, ya this was all during me and her 2 week vacation when me and her were together, and we would be up all night talking, over that course of time she constantly kept saying we were cousins to keep things from getting to crazy, we were basically flirting, and she has a so called bf, so u would say now that shes cheating, but shes not that type of person..she just knows who she really wants, and i know that she really doesnt like him, she was just desperate for someone, especially cuz she so called went into a relationship without really knowing the person, i am willing to have a secret relationship with her because most of the family probably would probably disprove of this..the first man in the family to go after their cousin(i think) most of them are christians..i wonder if they know that god accepts cousins getting together..im not even gonna bring up the topic to none of them.. o yea during my vacation i was speaking to my other cousins about cousins getting together and they had no problem with it, even though they said it would feel weird for a while, but theyd give it a shot, one of them said that she liked me..but i said no, that i have eyes for another..yea my other cousin who she doesnt know about, then after that we just threw the topic in the gutter, and went back to regular conversation, no harm done..u just gotta speak whats on your mind sometimes, u just gotta know what will happen, u cant keep it hidden..its annoying..ok back to the cousin that i love.. well now we're back home and live 20 min from each other, and see each other sometimes, its most likely things wont turn out how i want them to be, and maybe im setting myself up for destruction, there have been too many times in my life where i could have done something but didnt for fear of the results, but no matter how complex this situation is, and the cracks it may create in the road for me, i wanna go for this regardless of what problems it could create for me, im just really hoping that if it cant work out, that things will mend on its own and we can still be close cousins, im wondering if god is showi

Answers:

wow youve put some real deep thought in 2 this most of the the things related to this topic i read or hear about are half calked ideas as 4 the worlds veiw of this your right dont think about it remember adam and eve had a son and daughter so someone was bangin their sister lol but if you guyz feel the same way then who is anybody 2 say its wrong u know love and happiness is wat matters life is too short if u find someone that you are happy with (even if its ur cuz) then go 4 it good luck man

What? No you do not date your cousin. If your cousin says no you can always try your sister because obviously you don't have any limits when it comes to family.

problems. you.

A rant of a red neck.

i dont know where you got your informatin but the GOD i serve doesnt like that sorta thing,my god she is family you are so perverted jut like homosxuals and lesbians! may god have mercy onyou ilthy soul!genetics weren't as messed up in Biblical times as they are now. Governments almost all prohibit marriage between cousins. You may not mind the damage you'll do to your offspring, but your children will be the ones to suffer. Get over your crush, as nothing can legally come of it.u may think God accepts them but society doesnt and ur kids r gonna b deformed & stupid. y would u do that 2 anyone?

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